Attachment and Loss in Separation and Divorce
Attachment and Loss in Separation and Divorce refers to the emotional…
Individual & Couples Coaching
Together or Apart offers clear, compassionate and expert guidance for individuals, couples and families facing separation, divorce, or child arrangements.
Relationship Coaching
At Together or Apart, we believe every relationship deserves a clear and compassionate path forward.
Our team provides professional coaching, mediation, advice and guidance for individuals, couples and families navigating relationship crossroads. We offer a unique blend of expertise and emotional support, helping you find a solution that’s right for you, your family, and your future.
We know these are some of the most challenging conversations you’ll have. That’s why we’ve built our services around providing a safe, non-judgmental space for you to explore your options.
We provide compassionate one-on-one coaching to help you find clarity and take control of your next steps.
We offer a structured, collaborative approach to help couples resolve conflicts outside of court.
We explore how your emotional and physical well-being impacts your relationship and overall health.
Our Services
We provide clear, empathetic guidance to help you navigate the end of a relationship and find a positive path forward.
We help you explore and understand the root causes of conflict to help you decide on your best path, whether that's to reconnect or separate.
We provide expert guidance on co-parenting and child-focused parenting plans, helping you avoid the emotional and financial stress of court.
We facilitate structured workshops for couples or colleagues to help you develop the skills to resolve disagreements amicably and effectively.
We offer professional support and advice to help you navigate the complexities of the family court system with confidence.
We explore how your emotional and physical wellbeing impacts your relationship and empower you with the tools to manage stress and build resilience.
Our Process
All your appointments will take place in neutral, non-judgmental and solution focused way, providing skilled, experienced and individualised care.
We offer in-person sessions at a private location, providing a discreet and comfortable space for your consultation.
Our virtual appointments allow you to receive compassionate guidance from the comfort and privacy of your own home.
We offer both individual and joint sessions, allowing each person the space to explore their feelings before coming together to work through issues collaboratively.
We provide a compassionate, non-judgmental space designed to help you navigate conflict in a way that feels respectful and empowering.
Pricing
£180
Online or in-person (depending on location)
What's included?
£475
Online or in-person (depending on location)
What's included?
£65
/ Hour
Browse our range of coaching, mediation & consultancy packages.
Package types:
Appointments
Book a Virtual or telephone call with one of the team – this is designated for individuals to talk through, process and explore their thoughts about whether a relationship is over.
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Testimonial
Find peace of mind by hearing directly from the individuals and couples we’ve helped find a compassionate way forward.
The outstanding service I received from Together or Apart was simply unbelievable. It has restored my faith in human beings. The team went above and beyond to meet my needs and exceeded my expectations.
Society has conditioned us to see the ending of a marriage as a failure. I saw it as a necessary step to finding a healthier and more fulfilling future which together or apart helped me work through, at my pace, in a more amenable way with my ex.
It’s a scary thing trying to get help, but TOA took a lot of that anxiety and fear out of the equation. I was able to get personalised support which best fit my needs.
Together or apart helped me methodically work through the reason why I felt disconnected from my husband, particularly in mid-life. Together, we were able to find a more conducive and appreciative way of expressing our frustrations, reconnecting and understanding each other in a better and harmonious way.
I was unsure whether my marriage was over or not and I was struggling to focus on work and the impact it was having on my health. TOA helped me unpick how I was truly feeling and I was able to really evaluate myself and my relationship in a more insightful and kinder way. With TOA’s help I was able to regain focus on what really mattered to me.
Together or Apart provided a calm, supportive space during a confusing time. Their guidance helped me find the clarity I needed to make the right decision for my family. The process felt calm, not like a legal battle.
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FAQs
We work with individual clients as well as couples who have reached a point in their relationship where they are unsure whether they want to stay together, separate or divorce. We are trained family mediators and have extensive experience in public and private childfamily law and court processes. We have knowledge of the separation and divorce process and final orders in respect of financial matters.
We start with a free 20 minute Discovery Call to explore your situation and find out what you want moving forward. It is not uncommon for us to receive enquiries from individuals and couples who simply have no idea why their relationship is breaking down or what to do about it. Often many couples have stopped communicating and do not understand why one party has shut down and refuses to talk. Sometimes there are external factors such as work, health or financial stresses that impact on a relationship.
Our packages allow us to gain an opportunity to understand both parties views and then potentially bring couples together (virtually or in-person depending on location and requirements), to talk openly and honestly about what is happening and whether the relationship is over.
From there, decisions can be made about whether to stay together with support to reconnect or whether to separate or divorce avoiding the emotional and financial turmoil that comes with ending a relationship.
Our approach is simple, honest, solution-focused and practical - we do not proclaim to have all the answers to your dilemmas and we do not promise to solve all the concerns you may have. What we will provide is an equilibrium of skill, knowledge, support and guidance that will optimise, empower and enable you to discover with clarity, how best to achieve the right outcome for you.
We offer a range of cost effective and efficient solutions, helping you to find clarity and achieve your objectives within a streamlined and affordable approach. We pride ourselves on our success and recommendations. Clients are the centre of our work and affordability is something we have carefully thought about so that everyone can access our services and support.