Is the relationship over?

Together or Apart offers services for individuals and couples who are unsure whether they want to stay together, separate or divorce.

Our services

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    Coaching & Mediation

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    Child Arrangements

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    Conflict Coaching

  • Separation & Divorce

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Our approach

If your relationship has reached a point where you are unsure about whether to stay together or to separate, we help people have honest, difficult conversations and transform the way they make that decision in a considered, understanding and constructive way.

We help couples reconnect as well as helping avoid the emotional and financial turmoil that comes with ending a relationship. 

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Providing you with a safe supportive space to talk

All your appointments will take place in neutral, non-judgmental and solution focused way, providing skilled, experienced and individualised care.

A child touching a globe showing the map of Africa, Europe, and parts of the Middle East and Asia. Together or Apart cover the whole world - they go where people are and can offer in-person or online support.

In-person and remote options

We offer online virtual meetings as well as in person depending on location and requirements.

Meet our team

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    Jo Francis

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    Sam Urquhart

About Us

“ The outstanding service I received from Together or Apart was simply unbelievable. It has restored my faith in human beings. The team went above and beyond to meet my needs and exceeded my expectations.”

— A. M.

Divorce Statistics

42%

of marriages end in divorce.

England & Wales (ONS, 2013)

66%

of divorces were on petition of the wife.

England & Wales (ONS, 2012)

1/2

almost half of divorces involve families with children under 16.

England & Wales (ONS, 2012)

73%

of women blame menopause symptoms for the breakdown of their marriage.

Office for National Statistics

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