Find a way forward that is right for you that meets your needs.
Connecting you with us
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What are you looking for?
Are you at a point in your relationship where you are unsure whether you want to stay together, separate or divorce?
We offer various packages that supports difficult conversations and transforms the way decisions are made in a considered, understanding and amicable way.
Before making any knee-jerk decisions, give yourself the time to work through next steps with a trained member of the team.
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Discovery call.
If you need help making what is often one of the most daunting, challenging and emotional decisions in your life, we offer various packages that will give you clarity, understanding and information that supports next steps whether to stay together, separate or divorce.
Book a free 20 minute discovery call to find a way forward that it right for you that meets your needs.
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Pick the right approach for you and with whom.
Every persons situation is unique, that is why our packages are designed to be flexible to your particular set of circumstances.
We also offer individual consultations around conflict coaching, child arrangements and mediation. The team offer a wide range of specialisms therefore we can tailor your needs with the right person to help you.
"It’s a scary thing trying to get help, but TOA took a lot of that anxiety and fear out of the equation. I was able to get personalised support which best fit my needs."
— Susan, TOA CLIENT
FAQs
Who do we work with?
We work with individual clients as well as couples who have reached a point in their relationship where they are unsure whether they want to stay together, separate or divorce. We are trained family mediators and have extensive experience in public and private childfamily law and court processes. We have knowledge of the separation and divorce process and final orders in respect of financial matters.
How do we approach clients?
We start with a free 20 minute Discovery Call to explore your situation and find out what you want moving forward. It is not uncommon for us to receive enquiries from individuals and couples who simply have no idea why their relationship is breaking down or what to do about it. Often many couples have stopped communicating and do not understand why one party has shut down and refuses to talk. Sometimes there are external factors such as work, health or financial stresses that impact on a relationship.
Our packages allow us to gain an opportunity to understand both parties views and then potentially bring couples together (virtually or in-person depending on location and requirements), to talk openly and honestly about what is happening and whether the relationship is over.
From there, decisions can be made about whether to stay together with support to reconnect or whether to separate or divorce avoiding the emotional and financial turmoil that comes with ending a relationship.
What makes Together or Apart different?
Our approach is simple, honest, solution-focused and practical - we do not proclaim to have all the answers to your dilemmas and we do not promise to solve all the concerns you may have. What we will provide is an equilibrium of skill, knowledge, support and guidance that will optimise, empower and enable you to discover with clarity, how best to achieve the right outcome for you.
Making our services and support affordable?
We offer a range of cost effective and efficient solutions, helping you to find clarity and achieve your objectives within a streamlined and affordable approach. We pride ourselves on our success and recommendations. Clients are the centre of our work and affordability is something we have carefully thought about so that everyone can access our services and support.